Dear mangomango123,
Firstly, do not blame yourself for the breakup by reading some articles and finding faults within yourself. You will hurt more and lose your self esteem. If you think you’ve made a mistakes, just remember we all do and that’s part of being human.
Here’s some tips I wrote a while ago.
Some suggestions that might help for people going through breakup or divorce
Good luck
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