Hi greenshade,

Enjoy your crush! 🙂 It is just that ~ a harmless crush. Don’t worry about it. And don’t mislabel it! “I have feelings…connection…attachment…” (way too heavy!)

The reasons you’re crushing? Possibly:

1. He’s in the same soul group and you recognized him
2. He is “safe” to have a crush on as he is unavailable. You get to have all the “feels” without having to do anything about it
3. You share a work space. Spending all day everyday with someone is bound to stir latent feelings eventually

But none of this really matters, the “why”.

Best,

Inky

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