Dear mary65:

You are welcome. I read someone say: “What people think of me is none of my business.” and I thought: wow! Is that possible, not to care what someone thinks of me? Never has been for me. I care. I want to be thought well of and I want to be liked and respected.

I realized over time that what most people think of me is not a matter of much consequence. If someone is not paying my bills, and therefore the consequence is not loss of income, then what is the consequence?

Yes, I would like people to think well of me but if they don’t, makes no practical difference to me.

anita