Dear Lindsay Harrington:

You are proud of yourself for being strong enough to not contact him for a month. Why take away this self appreciation that you earned?

In my last post to you Jan 16, I wrote: “He was dishonest and manipulative” and so, when you asked above: “Is he just manipulative..?” I think, probably.

You wrote that apparently he is an emotional mess- apparently to whom? If he was an emotional mess, wouldn’t he reach out to you?

If you assume HE is an emotional mess, and you contact him, YOU will be an emotional mess.

anita