Hi smutsik,

I think you’re damaging her energetically by sleeping with her while pretending to be into her. And I do believe in preferences. For example, my husband wants a used car. He’s not asking for much. He’s asking for a low mileage car that’s dark on the inside, dark on the outside and with nothing weird about it. So this weekend these dealers were trying to sell him a white car that runs on diesel. So then DH was saying that he could maybe live with this car for five years. I’m all why would you pay thousands of dollars for a car you kind of like, that you want to like? You should only buy things you absolutely love. So the search continues!

With you, YES, you love her on a spiritual level. But on the primal level something is lacking. If you break up with her, will she get worse? Yes, maybe, but dear one, she had these deep underlying issues well before she met you. You cannot be or feel responsible for all of her well being. She has to take profound ownership in her own wellness.

Blessings,

Inky

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