Gigi,

I’m so sorry to hear how you lost your baby. That is much worse than what I went through.

Listen: Your engagement mattered. Your child mattered.

But get this: You matter.

When you truly “ghost” ~ leave him alone, no contact, no response, nothing, nada ~ for a full year (and a day!!) HE will realize with gravity, that you DID matter.

One does not treat people like this. I would never “neg” a BF, DH, ex, friend, whoever by openly admiring other people like that. Dear One, he wants you to get emotional over him, get jealous over him, not get over him.

Be strong and truly Ghost.

Good Luck,

Inky