Hi Guarav,

If she is sad, and wants to talk, and you feel you are strong enough to talk about that without developing Re-occuring feelings for her, than I feel it would be okay to talk to her. However, you have to put yourself first and right now you are still very attached to her, so you have to be very careful how you approach talking to her about all this. If you are feeling guilty, and feel you are able to talk to her, talk to her, but don’t let it go on for a long period of time. Try to be objective and separate what she is sad about from re-developing feelings from her. What are your thoughts? You want to get over her, and I feel like continuing contact with her will only make it harder for you. But since an abortion is involved, and she needs to talk about it, and you feel you can remain objective, then by all means, talk to her. If that will help lessen your guilt. Just remember, you want to get over her, and keep your communications casual and limited.