Dear Reeny:

You are welcome. I am not sure if I understand what you mean by “indulging too much” (last line, above), can you explain?

I also didn’t understand this part: the second young man you are talking about, when you ended it with him over text, he “replied a patronizing message saying he didn’t want anything with me and hat he was reading that I did”-

can you state his reply to you as he said it, more or less, as clearly as you can?

One more thing, when you wrote that you lashed out at that co worker at your previous employment, what do you mean by lashing out- what did you say and do at the time you lashed out at her?

anita