Me and my partner have been together for years and I admit most of the time we argue alot specially with heavy differences we have (attitudes,priorities and principles). We already have kids but not yet married. We’ve been talking about it many times but so many circumstances arises especially about dealing with both sides(our families). I love him,there’s no doubt in that but every time I’m thinking about the family issues we have and sometimes he’s not treating the way I deserve, I’m having second thought if I still want to make things work especially for our kids. His family always interfer with us but not helping. They even ignore us when we are financially down. Even our kids. I even gave birth to our kids but no one came to see or support or even help us in the hosp., I undergo a CS operation,I have no siblings my parents are in other countries, even my cousins.same situation happened to my 3rd and 4th child when my husband work abroad.I am the only one in the hospital with my baby.Sometimes, even when they are having  special occassions, they are just inviting my partner without me and my kids and he will just inform me that he will just spend some time with his family(even without us). His parents also tolerating his vices which I’m trying to avoid(he’s a bit alcoholic) because he cant control himself if drunk. I really don’t know what to do. He says he loves us but It’s hard for him to stand up for us and make us respected by his family. Most of our arguements is because of his family but none of this argues was with me. He’s always on his family’s side and I am the one who always need to understand and adjust because it’s always my fault for him.

Sorry if the story was too long. I try to shortened it the best way I  can.