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Marriage Seperation Limbo, Am I foolish to stick around?

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  • February 23, 2018 at 11:14 am #194107
    Anonymous
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    Dear Yvonne:

    I hope this “Marriage Separation Limbo” resolves soon and that you will have the chance, the time and social support to heal and recover from your heartache.

    Reads to me that long before her affair she was not as happy as you were in the marriage, that the communication between the two of you was limited for a long time. Reads to me that she cares about your feelings, that she is suffering too, and that she doesn’t see much hope for the future with you.

    If you somehow accept the ending of the marriage best you can, with as much calm as you can, and communicate that acceptance to her, she may be more open with you (and with the couple therapist) and express more about what is happening with her and what has been happening in her mind and heart for a long time.

    anita

    February 23, 2018 at 11:23 am #194109
    Mark
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    Yvonne,

    I did not see what was the reason your wife said that was the reason for the affair.  What is the reason she gave?  Are you two addressing that?

    You wrote: my wife will not fully commit to working on our marriage

    I think your marriage therapist is bogus for having you two go on a trip together as a fix.  This does not address the underlying issues in my opinion.

    For me that is the reason why you alone cannot save your marriage.  I believe you need both parties willing to work on it and re-commit to the marriage.

    Mark

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