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April 5, 2018 at 4:35 am
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Inky
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Hi Jonathan,
She was a hot mess when she met you, but guess what? She will find that she will be a hot mess without you. I’m glad she’s doing (a lot!) better. But she has forgotten who you are. You are the person that has taken care of her all these years and she’s living at your place! This bears repeating: She is living at your place! You are not married. Morally, you don’t owe her a thing. Methinks, perhaps, you can gently move her to an apartment all her own.
Now it is time for you.
Best,
Inky