Hi John,

It’s a good letter, and a good idea to tell your current GF that you need time alone. If you feel this strongly about your ex then you’ve got to give it a shot, right? If you don’t do it, you’ll always wonder. I think that the selfie she sent you may reveal something about how she feels about you, and her showing a little jealousy when she found out that you’re seeing someone — same.  But what do I know?…maybe she wants to remain friends with you and nothing more. So anyway, I say go for it, and then respect whatever decision she makes. I hope it works out!

Well, I asked her if she wanted to meet and it took her a whole day to respond.  She said “Hey.  I don’t think that’s a good idea at this point.  Have a good rest of the week.”  we texted a little bit back and forth after that.

really confusing.  Does she not want to because it will bring  up feelings with her, or she just doesn’t  want to see me period.  or what?  Sucks.  I’m going to send her that letter next week.  We will see then what happens.  Either she says yes or no.  Either way i will know for sure and be able to move on.  This hope and fantasy that i’m clinging on to is killing me.