Dear Kay:

“I occasionally still have good times with her and don’t know who else to go to. But I know ultimately it’s been a pattern and she will probably turn on me again”

If you want to, if you do, will you give an example, the last time it happened that she turned on you: what was the circumstance, what did she say to you, what did you say to her, what she said next, and so forth.

This may help me understand more than I do now.

anita