Dear Kay:

For that transformation you are experiencing and looking forward to more of, got to re-evaluate people in your life and see them for who they are.

We need people, so we hold on to a way of seeing them that fits what we need. You needed this friend’s love and support so badly that you held on to the view of her as a loving and supporting friend for as long as you have. Time to let go because, like you wrote, you do “have a chance for a beautiful transformation”. How exciting!

This transformation will be at times scary and sometimes you will feel, most likely, that there is no transformation at all. It is during these times that lots of people give up. But if you persist during those times, you will succeed.

There is no such thing as a transformation of the kind you are talking about, without times of fear, sadness and confusion. You are welcome to post here anytime. I would like to reply to you whenever I see a post by you.

anita