Hi Neil,

I realized after I hit the Submit button on my last post that I had typed it too quickly without thinking through what I was trying to say. Earlier you had described exactly what you believe prompted your wrong turns and I’m not sure why I came up with a different one for you. Just wanted to say that I did read and do understand what you were saying about not feeling like you were enough.

I think I understand the urgency of this. With that said, I want to remind you that you’re making three life-changing decisions all at once and from a fragile emotional state. So lets throw some possible scenarios out there. Let’s say you make the choice you’re leaning toward and a year from now you find yourself here:
1) Your new job isn’t working out.
2) Neither is your new home.
3) You miss your ex-partner and she is now with someone else.
4) Your daughter isn’t spontaneously dropping in and hanging out…ever.

What happens now?

B

PS – You are very welcome. And no, I’m not a professional nor have I had counseling myself so I really have no idea what I’m doing. 🙂