Dear noname:

I know you want “some kind of carrot to chase” but I am not into providing carrots. I am into looking for the real causes and real solutions. I suppose a carrot for you would mean a kind and attractive young woman. You know I can’t provide you with that! Besides, that would be a short term solution unless this young woman would be so exceptionally loving and understanding, so persistent and strong, that she will provide you with the safety and support that you need to .. look for the real causes and real solutions.

“My relationship with my parents doesn’t feel like the problem right now”- it doesn’t feel like it is, but it is. It always has been. And it will continue to be until and unless you resolve it.

anita