Dear Ladybug:

Reads to me that given his chosen career, fighting, that it is likely that he will never find that safety that he is looking for. Even if he makes lots of money, he may still fear the next failure. And there are always failures in life.

If he perceived you as his partner to walk through life with, he would be walking with you. Neither one of you is waiting for anything, the two of you will be busy, working together toward a better life. But if he perceives you as a prize to have at the end of his walk (when he “feels a certain type of security within himself”), he is walking alone and you are waiting.. and waiting.

anita