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He has very bad habits, Hes not very tidy, he sleeps late. he procrastinates. His lifestyle is very unreliable and irresponsible at times. Ive had a conversation with him regarding the household and i told him that whether he lives with me or by himself he needs to handle his duties around the house. I am a lot better at cleaning but Ive stopped doing everything so that he can learn to take responsibility and take initiative. He has made an effort although he at times still relies on me to remind him or tell him to do it. He always had people taking care of him growing up and letting him be lazy and sleep late so now hes really battling to learn a healthy productive lifestyle and responsibilities. Ive started thanking him a lot more often and showing him recognition for his small efforts hoping that will make it easier and motivate him to be consistent.