Hello AutumnGlow,

I’m wondering about the “rejection” you feel (from him online).  If he hadn’t logged on less and less, but rather had continued to talk with you and contact you…would you feel differently?  Did he lead you to believe he cared about you?

You are wise to not tell your husband about what happened and I agree with Anita that there is nothing to be gained by telling him.  Come here and share your thoughts and feelings any time.  You won’t be berated or shunned.

Airene