Oh maybe.  I see your point there.  Now that you mention that there was someone that i did briefly date that did well for herself.  was very active (did things/trips on weekends) and her child was 17.  When i was talking to her, all thoughts of my ex faded out very fast, I got that excitement i did have with my ex when she would text or whatever.  She even dressed up similar to my ex.  I only went out with her a couple times, we did text a lot though.

gives me something to think about i guess…