Yes Anita…. I will write and I hope someone going through a bad time reads this and it helps them….

Sometimes in loving people, we put them before us. I have done that a lot in my life and it never worked in a positive direction for me. Because as human beings we create a dependency on another person … Not that it’s a problem but sometimes we forget to give back and only take. This happened to me a lot… Before this forum…. I used to write self letters….which only had my problems written…and ill formed suggestions with only person’s perspective on it… My own… I used to delete them too… From my personal laptop because I was afraid if someone ever read them they would know I am weak. I wanted to be this person everyone thinks is super strong, can handle anything and solve anyone’s problems…. People have always come to me for suggestions and I felt good because of it….till I realised that sadness as well as happiness is contagious….and one should only handle the amount that doesn’t affect them….