Dear Anita,

Wow, I am going to highlight key aspects from your last post here – so I can further savor it.

• When so tired as you are, think of the basics: there is  this one person, Cali Chica, in legal and somewhat  practical partnership with  this man, your husband
• Between now and then, why not make life as simple as possible.
• Why not eliminate  loyalties based  on genetics and base  loyalty instead,  on  win-win partnerships
• Why not exit  old familial roles and  choose as  if you were a free  agent-

In essence, why don’t I let go of anything and anyone who does not serve me on this path – why not?