Hi, Robi. Took me a while to respond.

Remember the time when this topic was about you wanting to have more sex? I like the way this is going. Lol!

I had a crappy time in my life before I had my job. It would have been really great if it had been possible to receive a message from the future, knowing that my life is going to turn out well..

At the time when I had my bad stage, I tried to focus on gratitude. I had a house, I had enough money to eat, I had friends, I had a family and I was still alive. Trying to focus on gratitude sometimes feels horribly unsatisfying, but that’s how it is.

You can still hang out with friends and waste time. Could you spend a little bit of time to contemplate what you want, to look for jobs or studies? 10 minutes a day? 10 minutes every couple of days? If you can do a tiny bit more than that, you will have outdone yourself.

I want to start a family some day, and there are still days when I feel desperate to have a girlfriend or whatever. I don’t know if I can do this either. You are not the only one who has a hard phase in your life. We are in this together.