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Ik09
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I did and yes there was something.  But my sister was engaged to be married in two months and he is younger than her, about 3 years.  In all honesty,  he also liked her but she kept him at bay.  He says he soon realized it was just a crush and so he was happy they didn’t act on it because he doesn’t actually like her behavior.

 

The comment about leaving him because my loyalty lies to my sister.  I don’t know,  I know that since a small age my parents have bound all three of us so strongly(I have a younger brother too… Eight years younger)  that even if we don’t like some aspects of each other.  Even my mum says you care more for her than she cares for you,  but you have to do it still since she is your sister.

 

But this is the first time I have gone against her for a guy,  but I want to.  I want to stand by him.  He is that sort of a guy that I feel like standing with. Lately he seems off, but he has been really supportive all through even when he was being judged by everyone at my home about things that really hurt him. But he still stood by me without thinking about himself.  Lately he told me during the fight that these were the comments that really hurt me but I couldn’t convey to you.