Mark,

thank you for your reply. I’m 32 years old now. Everything you say makes sense to me.

Part of my growth is understanding other people and how they can affect me. Everything happened to me for a reason and shaped me into the person I am today with good and bad. I want to learn from this (what to avoid? what this means? why is he acting this way? how much does it affect me? etc.). I always want to learn from my experiences. I think that’s fair.

And yes, I agree, I need to learn by myself. Still, I want to learn from what has happened to me. Both my long term relationship breakup and this recent one. Thanks.

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