Dear Lost soul:

If you re-read your  own posts on this thread, you may see for yourself that this man is not interested in a relationship with you, or if he was interested at any one time, his interest has been very weak.

And yet, you keep hoping that what he told you and what he did (clearly indicating anywhere between no interest and a very weak interest) is… not so.

The answer to your dilemma (“In a dilemma” is the title of your thread) is on page on of this thread. It is just that you are not trusting that answer to be the truth, keep wanting it to not be the answer, is what I understand.

anita