Hi Alexandria,

So sorry to hear your story.

You could not foresee what was going to happen to your aunt and your motive for helping your aunt/friend was a good one.  Your aunt made her own decision on this and no-one should  be throwing this back at you.  I do sympathize with your aunt for what she has gone through and hope she can come to terms with her ordeal.

Your father has lost his job.  Again, this is not your fault and neither is the random illness that you have been suffering from.  I do not understand why your presents need to be sent back.  Your birthday could still be celebrated.  It doesn’t need to cost money.

I’m sure your father is quite capable of finding another job and it sounds as if everyone is over-reacting to the circumstance they find themselves in.  I really hope things improve for the family and yourself very soon.

I would like to wish you a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

Peggy