Did I read that right that he had 2 mistresses? Like was he having a physical relationship with them and has that ended too or did they ever talk about it?  It seems like they have some issues that need to be worked out.

And I think it’s okay to catch up with exes here and there, but all-day, every-day conversations sounds like a bit much. If not a physical affair, it definitely sounds like an emotional one, and that’s not right either.  There is something missing for him in their relationship that they need to probably talk about and figure out so that they are able to find what they need in each other rather than in other people.