Dear Anita,

Okay I will write what comes to mind, mind thoughts:

“oh I she hasn’t been over! she has visited her other friends in nyc, but haven’t had achance to stay with me – i miss that time, i wanna make time for it.

but counter thought – husband and I don’t have full weekends for people to visit anytime soon, and summer was crazy, she gets that, she never asks, it’s just in my own head

another one…

“oh i miss my quality time with her,  i know we never will lose touch we have a strong bond, but i miss our quality time together, we had so much fun last week together – i want to schedule more soon.  i guess it isn’t about losing touch it’s just missing that quality time.

“i feel bad that she hasn’t been over, she is so good about making time and scheduling around me, i feel bad i haven’t been able to give her a whole weekend in over a year.