Dear Anita,

Great! It looks like we have our “work” cut out for us today! I am excited.

First, you are right – family – yes, savior -no.  I will keep this in mind in all of my interactions with her. It is a must to keep this in mind for the good of myself, my husband, and most of all – her.

And yes, my in laws are a dream – I am very fortunate to have them, and so is my sister now too – as they extend their love and support and are extremely judgement free.

1- ROAR

2-Accel

short for acceleration, but a less abrasive or intense word – accel to me sounds like a fancy tech company, where people work efficiently and productively and move forward.