Dear Aiyana Henderson:

No, I don’t recommend you swapping with me, having my mother around you- she’d do an excellent job overwhelming you (scream, cry, threaten to kill herself or me, blame me, guilt trip me, hit me) not a good idea. I am not in contact with her anymore, not since 2013.

“when I was trying to do the dishes, and she honest to God just overwhelmed me”- how, did she yell at you?

“She has been a very different person for a long time and I’m just now seeing that”- if you can elaborate on it, please do.

I don’t feel very comfortable sometimes asking questions, and people often don’t feel comfortable answering me, so please answer only if you feel comfortable. Whether you answer or not, I will keep communicating with you, so you choose.

(I will be away from the computer for a while).

anita