Anita,

Thank you. I have sometimes roughly asked him about how he feels when he is with his wife and he told me that whenever he has sex with her then mostly he is not interested but he has to do it to avoid the mess or questions that his wife would raise. He also told once that when he is physically involved with his wife then he thinks about me. And he also told that always his wife is the one who insists and not he.

Tomorrow I will talk to him about avoiding all physical contacts and then I will share with you his reply.