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July 25, 2020 at 7:35 am #362692
Hi Anita I will surely try the things you said.
Hi Mary, Thank you may be you are right. 🙂July 23, 2020 at 9:51 pm #362547
By connecting to God, I simply mean where I am able to talk to him in my mind and where I can feel peace whenever I think of him. And currently I am not able to do.
In regards to the affair, yes I still do have it. But as per our discussion, I didnt have any physical things. We just talk and share everything.
Here, I want to know if I should follow any spiritual path to find the peace I am looking for.
Thanks.May 14, 2020 at 11:39 pm #355116
I am not aware as how is the owner as a human being and not sure if it will be a disadvantage to me in any way. However I will try to contact them and let them know as what is happening in their organisation. Just to see if anything positive can happen.
It is indeed a shame that poor people are taken advantage of in such a manner.
Lets see what I can do.
Thanks for your support as always. 🙂May 14, 2020 at 10:38 am #354958
The employees have complained to same department managers and their just superiors. But I am not thinking of approaching anyone from same department. I am thinking to approach someone who is the real owner. To be honest I dont have owner’s contact details also. All I will do is just search them on Google and see if I can reach out to someone.May 14, 2020 at 10:23 am #354952
Thanks for your reply. Considering current situations and scope it might not be possible for me to reach out to lawyers. Maybe the entire MNC is not corrupt but only few people are. I initially though of approaching some owners who had build this organisation 50 years ago. Do you think thats a correct direction?
Thanks.April 20, 2020 at 11:58 am #350732
He told me that he will do it for once and then I can decide what I want. Anyways i have told him that we wont do it.
I believe for next few days this topic wont cone up because anyways I m not going to meet hik. So maybe I can observe his reaction when I meet him.April 20, 2020 at 11:38 am #350720
You have understood correctly.
I feel that he thought of everything in few hours and then his emotions made him say that he wants to hug for once.
What is your opinion on this?April 20, 2020 at 9:49 am #350652
Today I asked him many questions about his sex life and he answered all of them. Today due to work related issues he was very upset. I updated him that now on we wont have any physical relation and he said yes fine. We won’t have. I will follow your orders. It seemed to me that he was upset so he said that. I didn’t drag the discussion and we discussed other things then.
After 4-5 hours he messaged me that after lockdown which would probably end in next 15-20 days, he wants to hug me for once as we are away from each other for last 1 month and after that we can stop. He also told that it would be just for once. Then I told him that if we do it for once then we will feel to do again and again on which he said for now just think of once and we think other things later.
I ended discussion with him saying that it won’t be possible for me to do this and he said don’t think about it for now. Just take care of yourself.
That’s all what we discussed.April 19, 2020 at 11:07 am #350516
Thank you. I have sometimes roughly asked him about how he feels when he is with his wife and he told me that whenever he has sex with her then mostly he is not interested but he has to do it to avoid the mess or questions that his wife would raise. He also told once that when he is physically involved with his wife then he thinks about me. And he also told that always his wife is the one who insists and not he.
Tomorrow I will talk to him about avoiding all physical contacts and then I will share with you his reply.April 19, 2020 at 10:44 am #350510
Your message is such a big relief to me. Because cutting off all contacts from him is surely difficult for me but stopping the physical things is super easy for me. We have very rarely had such times so it is nothing major to stop that. I still want to ask that of i talk to him after office hours on chat then will it harm his personal life or my life? Or i should let things move slowly like reduce talking then slowly stop etc?April 18, 2020 at 10:35 pm #350458
Sure I will try and do this. The only problem is when I will tell him that we won’t talk privately anymore then he will be sad and will tell me that life for him will be very hard for him and then I will lose all collected courage. But yes I will try it for sure in next few days.
Thank you for your support Anita. You are an angel. 🙂
Do you have any tips as how I convince him with my decision and make sure that he understands to not spend extra time with me?April 18, 2020 at 1:26 pm #350322
I totally agree with you. How do I tell him to end all this. I will put points in front of me and i wont be able to break it. So i will be end up being in his life. What is your suggestion on this?April 18, 2020 at 12:48 pm #350304
Thank you for your answer but leaving my job is clearly not possible. I am at a good position with my job and I cannot just leave it.April 18, 2020 at 12:47 pm #350302
He does have his parents but he cannot share things with them because they are strict and they do not have such friendly environment. I insisted him to talk to his mother or brother about our situation but he doesn’t want me to talk because he says that divorce process is not so easy and it will destroy his family.April 18, 2020 at 12:06 pm #350274
In my heart, it feels very much wrong. I know that staying in his life will destroy my life and he will not be able to love his wife ever, But I am not sure what I should do? Should I just leave him? He will become alone and it will hurt him badly. Also he would meet me everyday in office and sit right beside me then how will I handle that situation.