Dear norit:

“I feel terrible my dad going on holiday without his immediate family”, immediate family include your mother and your brother who “.is a bully to (your mother), verbally abusive, has thrown things at her and been threatening”- I am guessing your father is relieved to go on a holiday without the two parties at war (mother and brother). If I am correct, then you can feel happy for your father, instead of feeling terrible. What do you think?

Regarding you going on a plane and on the holiday- not a good idea, being how much you suffered in these circumstances before.

Did I just made sense, to you?

anita