Hi boys or men if that makes you feel better lol

Sorry for being absent today but I’ve been working hard to meet the deadline I missed last week. Finally done! Bring on the weekend!!!!

I actually need some male advice from you two, it’s my bf birthday on 1st May and I normally like to spoil people on their birthdays but he really has made it clear to all his family this year he doesn’t want any gifts. I kind of know why but I still want to, if I went ahead, would I be wrong to?

Sometimes you do a nice thing for someone, best of intentions but because you went against their wishes they get mad or get the hump. Don’t want to ruin his day or be on the receiving end of that unnecessarily. So tips please…….

@Danny, awww I feel a little bit guilty for calling you out but I’m glad you took it in the spirit it was meant. You just had to go and further prove your in attentiveness by reporting Jay lol! 🤦🏼‍♀️

Thank you so much for taking the time out for that little tribute. I’m touched, you’re right in the past I have been taken for granted by so many people and it it was painful but now I’ve learned to not expect anything. So those who do reach out, respond , take time out for me or express their gratitude, I really do appreciate them more than you know.

Thank you @Jay2023 for your kind words too, I’m super pleased you are getting something out of this forum even if it’s a place to vent. Also I often get told I have the gift of the gab. Can get me into trouble too as you can imagine!

There’s a lot to get up to speed with so I’m just going to cook dinner and I’ll get back to you with a proper reply this evening.