Hi Anita and Teak

Sorry I didnt reply to your comments yesterday, it was my birthday.

But I hope you guys dont mind if I update u now, please read this according to you convenience.

So first of all answering to

Anita

Yes anita whatever understanding you have gathered up until now is completely correct, I dont find any thing that I dont agree with in your post.

You might say that yeas this is an anxious attachment style, but the thing is, it was my first time I was feeling this close to someone, I had actually fallen for. So his slight change of behavior use to make me anxious if I am not being good enough, or if he is losing interest.

But, I am also someone who has a lot of acceptance to growth, so I eventually did realise this now, and I know I would never allow any such relationship to be over me in my Priority list.

Apart from that, yes, I did get the feeling that he wanted to be my boyfriend other wise I dont know why, someone would go on resolving such expectation issues instead of being straight honest abt it. (And I know he is not someone who lets any one get in his personal space)

Anyways, also answering to your question what I meant by “dirty flirting”

Then I actually want to mean frequent casual sext

Well the truth is I have never done this before and thus, somewhere I used to feel a bit weird abt it.

But I only indulged in that with him, is because I used to kind of really think of him as this genuinely good guy, (who himself hasnt done this before with anyone) so maybe he is so sure abt me, that he wants to go that far with me.

I mean why would u sext any friend whom you donot find sexually interesting