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Afternoon @Jay2023 ! You sound so positive, ride the wave for sure!!!!
Jay I know exactly how you feel, it’s so painful when you care and love someone with all your being , show them it but it just doesn’t register and it’s not reciprocated! But looking back I’m so glad I endured that pain. I will never let anyone treat me like that again and I love myself more than ever.
I can already see your self esteem improving so whatever you’re doing , continue to do so. So you’re ready for when that beautiful, kind, caring girl when she comes along, who can understand your fears and anxiety. Who will encourage you to be better and will show you love and affection in gifts and words and plenty of emotional and physical intimacy. When she comes don’t ever get complacent, don’t ever let her slip away because you’ll have learned gratitude and you will have learned self love to accept what you deserve. I’m hopeful for you Jay because you seem mature and not selfish in your actions. I don’t forsee you going down the wrong tracks. I think you really want to unprove.
Thank you for the help with gifting, I’ve never used that website but sounds like a great idea. Message in a bottle how cute! He’s obsessed with plants and space so might look for a gift related to that.
Get those rays , top up on your happiness and if you need anything tag me!