Then how come life as a whole is meaningless, if a big and important part of it isn’t?

Every other thing is meaninglessness, i value people, if they matter to me, just not other things, and its not a big part for me, its just an extra, for me life, the normal life, is you being lonely, relationship are just extra things you pay for.

And if your loved one is sick and needs money for a life-saving surgery, would you still refuse to earn the money?

No, i would sacrifice and work, if her suffering is more then mine when i work.

Would you say – I care about you otherwise, but don’t ask me to save your life, it’s too much of you to ask?

Since this is a hypothetical scenario, expect hypothetical answer, if i love her more then my time and freedom, then yes, it all depends on the situation, if you gonna apply this logic to me working right now because this might happen in the future, then no, because there is no motivation to force myself to, if money buys relationship, doesn’t that tell you something?

you need to have a place to stay and access to electricity

I do have a place, a fridge, and everything i need for, so what would be the motivation to work?

we need to have the physical/material resources to do it. Without it, we can just say nice words

Sure, i would say those matters even more then the emotional ones, because without those, its impossible to have a relationship.

That’s how love and willingness to work for example go hand in hand

I won’t sacrifice my philosophy without a good reason, right now there is no loved one that is sick and want to me work for him, and i won’t put myself in such situation when i can not to, i won’t be in a relationship where money matters the most, i don’t care about money, i have enough of it to live, i don’t care about material things, but i know people do, especially females, most of them at least.