Dear Bianca:

It us clear to me is that you are not guilty for not telling your parents and other family members that you are gay.. because it is not true that you are gay. So, I figure you feeling guilty is about something else.

“I have felt guilty recently“- if it’s guilt for something other than sexual orientation (which I don’t believe is the true issue), tell me what your guilt is about. I am asking for one reason and one reason only: to try to help you be clear about what is really troubling you.

anita