Dear Masha:

“Can you please tell me how long it took for you to recover from this“?-

– no, I am sorry: I can’t tell you that. There is no way for me to know if or when you recover from not feeling love for him anymore. I don’t even know if you should recover from not feeling love for him.

One big problem that I see is that you got engaged to a man whom you never met in-person (“I haven’t meet him in a person yet“). It doesn’t make sense to me, to get engaged before having the opportunity to hold his hand, to look into his eyes in real-life, etc.: how can you know if you will like how he smells or how it feels to be close to him when you.. never met him yet?

anita