“So did she want you help you zealously or not? Have you asked for her help or not?”
She said she did, in fact she strongly insisted on it when she was getting to know me. It isn’t something I wanted at the beginning as I didn’t want her to deal with my issues, I didn’t ask her for anything.
She kept pushing it though, and ultimately I decided to do a leap of faith and accept her in my life fully as it all seemed so genuine. She got heavily involved in my and my family’s life, making plans and promises of a life together and of helping my family.
In the end, all that projected support was pulled from under my feet as she did the 180 switch. I don’t want to get into too many details but her plans and promises caused harm to me and my family as ultimately absolutely nothing happened. When she saw me struggle, she very rarely offered any help at all but was happily consuming my time and energy every day.
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