Dear Teckin:

“Sometimes the vibe he gives tells me he wanted more“- don’t look for vibes.. listen to his words and watch his actions. When he tells you that he does not want an exclusive, committed relationship with you- believe him.

“when I mentioned that he was closed off, he changed and tried to open up with me“- he told you that he does not want you as his real-girlfriend (to have an exclusive, committed relationship with you). I believe him and therefore, his motivation to open up with you is about wanting you to be his hook-up girlfriend.

“I don’t understand him fully“- we don’t understand people fully, that’s why we ask questions and get answers. He told you repeatedly, in so many words, that he is not interested in you as a real girlfriend.. why do you not believe him?

anita