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Dear Tineoidea,
I’m well aware that a child is innocent, I was talking about the recent happening.
Well, if you had the need to ask “Did I actually do something monstrous to deserve all of this?”, I guess there is a part of you that believes that you might actually have done something wrong. Based on what you’ve shared here, you did nothing to deserve your former friend slandering you and accusing you of “horrible deeds”. And when he and your ex accused you of “abusing him”, that too was a lie. You said your conscience is clear.
If I did, then why wasn’t it explained to me?
Do you believe you still did something wrong, without being aware of it?
Perhaps I’ve been trying to copy the traits my mother displayed during my upbringing, the absolute loyalty and utmost care no matter what, bearing with everything.
To whom was she absolutely loyal and caring, no matter what?