Dear Anita ,

While you were writing me back and submitting your last thread i was discussing about same topic with my sister ..

in afternoon it was like a advise but now it feels like smthing else .

She was making alot of excuses to not to accept him .. by saying people will torture my family ..u will be in Europe but people will criticise us here .. and that our uncle wont accept this proposal .. people will make our life hell .. mom will be very disturbed etc ..

and she continued that i should wait and check him more like 2 years etc .. i told her i m sorry but i dont have energy to wait 2 years more ..

The only issue is caste according to her .. that my children will have curly hair ( actually i do have curly hair too ,i told her ) and it doesnt matter ..

yah its all about racism ,prejudice unfortunately ..

i understand her situation and whatever she is saying is reality but this should stop 🛑 now ..

should i go to Europe and marry there if the family wont like him ? Because my Guy asked me that if you think u dont want to include family then we would do that now and with time we will tell them ..

what should be the best thing to do ?