Good Morning Anita,

It’s supposed to rain all day today so the kids and I will have to come up with some indoor activities.  We were supposed to go to the zoo.  It’s been a fun and relaxing weekend. Tomorrow is back to work.  It should not be too bad I worked about 3 or 4 hours yesterday to catch up.

I believe I ended things with Marty last night.  We were texting and I said I find you funny because I’m interested in you.  He had asked why I though he was funny.  He replied ” I’m flattered. ”  Alarm bell went off.  I think he should have replied thanks I’m flattered I’m interested in you too.  So I said something to him.  He stated I was overthinking.  He wanted to drive down to meet but couldn’t commit past that because he was not sure if he would like me. He should of said that we both may not like each other. No reason to even say he couldn’t commit past that.  There is no commitment.   Another alarm bell.  I realized the vibe I was getting was arrogance.  And I didn’t  like it-red flag.

So I told him yes I over think that part of me.  So he can decide if he wants to deal with it or not and I’m kind of done with the conversation for the night.  Didn’t hear back.

I wonder if I handled the end correctly.  It seemed to be dysfunctional in general.  I didn’t say he was arrogant to him.  I wouldn’t want someone saying that to me.  It felt rude. I feel like this would be a waste of my time.

Lindsey