Dear Lindsey:

I am sorry, Lindsey, I figure it was not a good idea to meet a man who is “on the fence” about dating you. If a man is on the fence, better leave him sitting on the fence, as uncomfortable as it may be sitting on a fence, particularly if it’s a metal wire fence. You are not a charity case to plead a case for someone to date you! Try to let this disappointing experience go and learn from it, so next time a man  is on a fence.. leave him there and .. walk away!

anita