Anita,

Once I dropped of the kids to school I came home to an empty home.  My ex sent a message from the parenting app “reminding” me that he will pick up the kids on Thanksgiving at 2pm and return them at 8pm.  It makes me very sad because what am I going to do all day?  I’m not with my family or my extended family.

He continues to be very passive aggressive.  On Saturday Ella and I took Aiden to a batting cage for a batting contest with teams of kids.  I was told he would have a game at 5-we got there at 4. He further stated it would be over by 6-Aiden and his team would not win against that team.  No only did he play at 6 he also played at 7.  Ella and I left at 7:30 because she was bored and we were both hungry.   For the last 2 months he has been doing drop off at a vet’s office by my house.

Sarah was there with Brayden and we were talking on the couches and walking around.  Sarah is Dan’s husband.  Dan is Amy’s ex husband.  Amy is my ex’s girlfriend.  Bradyen is Amy and Dan’s son.

My ex has made comments about Sarah and I being friends. That night he dropped Aiden off in front of my house.  On purpose  because of Sarah and I at the batting cages talking.  He knows he is not allowed on my property.

So I’m just feeling down.  My father asked if I would come up for Christmas to visit for the weekend and take the kids back home with me.  I said ok but changed my mind. It is not healthy for me to be around my mother. Not at all.  I would come home and lose the emotional gains I have made.

Lindsey