Dear Brian:

It just occurred to me that you wrote earlier today: “I’m usually guarded around new people. I’m trying to keep my thinking out of fight/flight mode“, and that means that you are guarded around me too, in this online context. I think that you are afraid that if you share more, I will have more material to judge you for, so you don’t share much. Less sharing=> Less judgment. Is this the case?

If it is, we can work around it, make sure that you will not be judged here, not by me!

anita

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