Dear Anita,

Today I was thinking about my relationship patterns when I was taking a walk and I found out these things
Most of my relationship Start with me giving good attention,
I feel so much attracted,
I do the extra caring
Writing letters and poems. etc
and like after some time if they also giving me same energy all goes well for few days
and after that when they finally start to get even closer with me, I just feel like I don’t know how to explain but like trapped?
And I just feel more distant when they try to be closer with me and I feel fear to be committed so after that I just try to avoid the deep feelings but already late from the other side
I never intent to hurt anyone and also in my next relationship I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings

What should I do about that?