I just wanted to say thank you for the support and advice. I survived a weekend in Seoul retracing steps taken with another. I think less of her everyday, and don’t start crying in Starbucks. Like the sea waves of emotion ebb and flow but in reality I know what she was now and know how she simply used me.

I have thrown her out of my head and heart like it how out the rubbish. I am worthy of someone better, someone true and loving as I am. She will not haunt me anymore.